Finding Clues To What We Want

Key Distinctions/Insights: Often we become very clear about what we want by what it is we don’t want. If we reflect on any current experience, it can help to illuminate both what we have to be thankful for as well as what is currently missing in our experience. This will be a clue to shaping our relationships and our visions, goals, and desires going forward. 

If someone lied to you or deceived you and it caused you disappointment, then you will have become very clear that you will only invest in relationships that are based on values that you, through personal experience realize are important to you, in this example namely trust and truth. The biggest progress that you can make is to become clear about the values that you stand for. These values will act as your True North and will provide you with enormous confidence in particularly tumultuous times. You will be able to focus your energy on creating in real time rather than being confused and fearful living outside of your power to engage in and create in the present moment. You will have a knowing of who you are by what you stand for! This will assist you in making important yes and no decisions particularly as events feel like they are accelerating. These times will bring people in and out of your life including family and friends, and events and circumstances, and the clarity that you create for yourself will assist you in determining where and how to invest your energy - invest your energy wisely!